Resources | Networking

Around the world, there are organizations that support the fisting community. Some provide play spaces, some host social events and play parties, some create networking opportunities, some provide educational content or seminars, and a few do all of the above.

These organizations include clubs (both formal and informal), venues, social media networks, non-profit organizations, and commerical enterprises.

Please contact Fist Theory (admin@fisttheory.com), if you are interested in being added to these registries/directories.

Clubs and Assocations

Club Directory / Registry

This directory lists active and inactive clubs by location and includes basic information about the club, including contact details and governing principles/policies. Events sponsored by these clubs are included in the Fist Theory Events Calendar.

For information about bars and venues that promote and host fisting nights, see Venues.

All Areas

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North America - Canada

Canada - British Columbia

Canada - Ontario

Canada - Quebec

North America - USA

USA - Arizona

USA - California

USA - Colorado

USA - Disrict of Columbia

USA - Florida

USA - Georgia

USA - Illinois

USA - Louisiana

USA - Kansas

USA - Massachusettes

USA - Maryland

USA - Michigan

USA - Minnesota

USA - Missouri

USA - Nevada

USA - New York

USA - New Jersey

USA - North Carolina

USA - Ohio

USA - Oklahoma

USA - Oregon

USA - Pennsylvania

USA - Rhode Island

USA - Tennessee

USA - Texas

USA - Utah

USA - Virgina

USA - Washington

USA - Wisconsin

Policy Key

Many clubs enforce various policies in their social media groups and at events. There are five policy categories:

  • Inclusion | Policies promoting inclusion based on an individual's non-mutable identity or physical characteristics.
  • Behavior | Policies regulating behavior among group members.
  • Substances | Policies designating allowable use of psychotropic agents, such as alcohol, soft drugs, and hard drugs.
  • Exclusion | Policies restricting membership or access to group functions and services.
  • Event | Policies governing event access and behaviors.

Inclusion Policies

The following policies promote inclusion based on an individual's non-mutable identity or physical characteristics:

Age

Welcomes all individuals of legally consenting age.

Promotes inclusivity and opposes age-based discrimination.

Expels ageists from group and denies access to events.

Body

Welcomes all body types.

Promotes inclusivity and opposes body-shaming and bullying.

Expels shamers and bullies from group and denies access to events.

Color / Race

Welcomes all races and ethnicities.

Promotes inclusivity and opposes racism.

Opposes preferential behavior (It's just my preference!).

Expels racists from group and denies access to events.

Gender Expression

Welcomes all forms of gender expression (masculine / feminine / non-binary).

Promotes inclusivity and opposes mocking and bullying of effeminate and non-binary individuals.

Expels shamers and bullies from group and denies access to events.

Gender Identification

Welcomes all forms of gender identification (male / female / non-binary).

Promotes inclusivity and opposes mocking and bullying of gender identities that do not conform to traditional gender ideologies.

Expels shamers and bullies from group and denies access to events.

Genitalia

Welcomes everyone, regardless of genitalia or expression of secondary sex characteristics.

Promotes inclusivity and opposes misogyny, bullying, patriarchy.

Expels misogynists or those hostile to genital modification from group and denies access to events.

See additional policies: Shock-Voyuerism / Tourism, Performance, Presentation.

Orientation

Welcomes gay, straight, bisexual, and pansexual orientations.

Promotes advocacy and inclusivity and opposes mocking and bullying.

Expels hostile members from group and denies access to events.

Trans Identification

Welcomes trans men and women.

Promotes advocacy and inclusivity and opposes mocking and bullying.

Expels trans hostile members from group and denies access to events.

Behavior Policies

The following policies indicate the group's values or regulate behavior among group members:

Fetish / Kink Friendliness

Open to the concurrent practice of kinks and fetishes at events with some restrictions.

Restrictions are documented and posted.

Harassment

Prohibits intimidating and inappropriate behavior toward other club members.

Expels offenders and denies access to events.

Privacy

Prohibits doxing, outing, and sharing membership details with others without explicit permission.

Expels violators from membership and events.

Sobriety / Substance Use

Prohibits certain psychotropic drugs or chem-play at events.

Typical prohibitions may include or exclude:

  • Hard Drugs
  • Soft/Party Drugs
  • Lethal Recreational Drugs (Ethyl Chloride)
  • Legal Drugs (Alcohol, Poppers, Pot)

Practices harm-reduction by avoiding judgement and promoting shame.

STI Awareness / Prevention

Promotes public health through public disclosure of STIs.

Encourages testing and quarantines after sex tourism.

Discourages shaming infected individuals.

Substance Policies

The following policies designate allowable use of psychotropic agents:

Alcohol

Permissible

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Aresol Poppers

See Ethyl Chloride

Does not included nitrite poppers (amyl, butyl, propyl, etc.).

Ethyl Chloride

Permissible

Typically considered a lethal soft drug.

Alternative names: Aresol Poppers, Max Impact

Hard Drugs

Permissible

Further clarification may be needed, as definitions vary by region and country. In the strictest sense, anything other than poppers, pot, tobacco, and alcohol.

Max Impact

See Ethyl Chloride

Meth

Permissible

Usually considered a hard drug.

Party Drugs

Permissible

Typically considered as hard drugs.

MDMA (Ecstacy), GHB, Ketamine, Cocaine, etc.

Poppers

Permissible

Does not include Ethyl Chloride (aresol poppers).

Pot (Marijuana)

Permissible

Includes edibles and/or inhalents.

Soft Drugs

Permissible

Typically includes pot, poppers, tobacco, and alcohol.

Tobacco

Permissible

Excludes injectibles.

Subtance usage policy may also include the following items:

Diminished Capacity

Expulsion from club and event if visibly impaired and posing a danger to attendees.

Discretionary Use

Nuanced policy toward party/hard drugs, typically linked with diminished capacity policy.

Must be consumed/administered in private.

Exclusion Policies

The following policies restrict membership or access to group functions or events:

Character Vetting

Limits access based on extreme personality issues (narcissm, psychopathy, histrionics, unmanaged schizophrenia, sadism), criminal behavior (sex trafficking, child pornography), or unlikely fit for the club/organization.

Imposed typically based on member interactions and analysis.

Geography

Denies access based on geographical distance from club events.

Presentation

Limits attendance to play parties to male-presenting, regardless of gender identity, trans identity, or genitalia.

Tribal Restraints

Prohibits admission to club or events based on additional factors specified in a club rules or bylaws, for example Bald Handballing Club of Texas.

Event Policies

The following policies regulate behavior and activites at events:

Cellular / Mobile Phones

Prohibits use of mobile phones in play spaces during play parties.

Repeat violations results in expulsion from events.

Content Creation

Prohibits content creation at group events, or...

Requires special permission to film at the event.

Dress Code

Requires specific dress requirements for events.

Typical requirements may include or prohibit:

  • Sports Gear
  • Pup-masks
  • Masks
  • Jockstraps
  • Leather
  • Full Nudity
Photo Identification

Requires presentation of government photo identification to register and enter events.

Personal Hygiene

Requires good hygiene to participate in events including:

  • Hole Prep | Prohibits full clean outs at event facilities, but may allow limited touch-ups.
  • Noxious Odors | Prohibits attendance with excessive body odor or heavy colognes.
  • General Cleanliness | Requires kempt appearance and good hygiene for admission.
RACK / PRICK

Requires signature acknowleging principles of RACK / PRICK at fisting play parties.

R(isk) A(ware) C(onsensual) K(ink) Wikipedia

P(ersonal) (R)esponsibility I(nformed) C(onsensual) K(ink)

Expels non-compliant individuals from events.

Shock-Voyuerism / Tourism

Prohibits fist tourism / shock-voyuerism (attendance without intent on participating) at play parties.

Removes tourists that have no intention of ever fisting from play spaces.

Deters bachelorette party-type and just-here-to-watch attendance at events.

Fisting virgins and novices seeking education are exempt from expulsion.

Sobriety / Substance Use

Prohibits certain psychotropic drugs or chem-play at events.

Typical prohibitions may include or exclude:

  • Hard Drugs
  • Soft/Party Drugs
  • Lethal Recreational Drugs (Ethyl Chloride)
  • Legal Drugs (Alcohol, Poppers, Pot)

Practices harm-reduction by avoiding judgement and promoting shame.

Smoking

Prohibits smoking outside of designated smoking areas, or...

Prohibits smoking entirely.

Club Starter Kit

Fist Theory and FFist Council have developed some material to help you organize a fisting club and fisting events in your area.

Please see Club Development and Certification.

Venues

This section is still under development.

Social Media Networks

Social media platforms connect fisters worldwide and serve as important spaces for education, information sharing, and community building. This registry includes groups that are not affiliated with a regional fisting club. Many events and clubs maintain their own social media pages, which may be listed in the club directory if the associated club, venue, or organization is affiliated with FFist Council or Fist Theory.

Reddit Forums

Description: Reddit allows adult oriented image posting; however, conversation about fisting is limited. Vendor sponsored pages typically have posts regarding toys.

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Telegram Messaging Groups/Channels

Description: Telegram provides group messaging and sharing of videos and photos on mobile devices. Limited discussion of fisting topics appears sporadically, and message volume can be overwhelming.

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WhatsApp Messaging Groups/Channels

Description: WhatsApp provides group messaging and sharing of videos and photos on mobile devices. Limited discussion of fisting topics appears sporadically, and message volume can be overwhelming. Owned by Facebook, messages are scanned to target you with specific marketing.

  • No published groups

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Discord Discussion Groups

Description: Discord provides group messaging and sharing of videos and photos on mobile devices. Limited discussion of fisting topics appears sporadically, and message volume can be overwhelming.

  • No published groups

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Organizations and Production Companies

This section is still under development.